Amelia was the sister of Richtmyer's second wife   (History & genealogy of the Hubbell family.  3rd ed.  Compiled & edited by Harold Berresford Hubbell, Jr., & Donald Sidney Hubbell.  1980. Brooklyn, NY : Theo. Gaus, Ltd., pg. 551).  FIndagrave.com has birth year as 1841 (on stone) 1848 on memorial page.